Do you remember sleeping with a stuffed toy as a child (if not, don’t worry – it’s never too late to start)? Whether it was a bear, giraffe, spider or hedgehog, those companions offered more than simple comfort; they quietly helped ease the pangs of separation anxiety.
Psychologists call these “transitional objects” – comfort items that guide us from dependence to independence in early life. What’s less widely known is that, for adults, their effects remain surprisingly similar as they can ease anxiety and promote calm, much like they did in childhood. It’s hardly shocking, then, that a Build-A-Bear (yes, the place where you could once stuff your own blue or purple bear and give it a heartbeat) Workshop and Atomik Research survey found 40% of adults still sleep with a stuffed animal. Even more intriguingly, 84% of those who admitted to keeping them were men, compared with 77% of women – a quiet rebuke to the stereotype of soft-hearted sentimentality being solely a feminine trait. Whether it’s the act of hugging or the nostalgia it evokes, research shows that contact with a stuffed animal activates brain regions linked to emotional regulation, dampens stress responses and provides genuine comfort – at a fraction of the cost of therapy.
This curious, if not entirely surprising, facet of human behaviour raises some interesting questions about attachment, comfort and the quirks of the adult psyche as we stumble through an increasingly volatile world. Studies suggest that roughly one in five adults live with an anxiety disorder, often accompanied by restless nights and racing thoughts. It’s little wonder, then, that psychologists have come to appreciate the humble stuffed animal as more than mere nostalgia. A 2024 study found that adults who spent just twenty minutes a day holding a favourite soft toy experienced a 40% drop in nighttime hypervigilance and a 31% improvement in sleep quality – remarkable results for something that doesn’t even need charging!
That said, you don’t really need an excuse to sleep with a stuffed animal. Humans are social creatures by design; we’re not built for solitude. In an increasingly isolated and individualistic world, a soft toy can quietly fill the emotional gaps that modern life leaves behind. In fact, one might argue that sleeping with a stuffed animal is preferable to sharing a bed with a person – no snoring, no sleepwalking, and no passive-aggressive duvet tug-of-wars at 2 a.m. Hugging a teddy can even mimic the physiological effects of human touch, releasing endorphins, oxytocin, and serotonin – nature’s chemical cocktail for calm, comfort, and contentment. Still, let’s not kid ourselves: as endearing as they are, stuffed animals can’t replace genuine human connection. They may soothe the senses and tick many of the same neurological boxes, but they’ll never quite match the warmth of a real hug.
Overall, a comforting interaction with a stuffed animal can do more than simply warm the heart – it can genuinely steady the mind. The simple act of touch can trigger a deep psychological sense of security, releasing those familiar “feel-good” hormones like oxytocin and serotonin that help calm the body and quiet the noise of the day. In a world that often feels overstimulated, yet disconnected, it’s oddly reassuring that something as small and silent as a stuffed toy can still provide such comfort. They may not have much to say, but perhaps that’s precisely why they’re so good at listening.
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